Ever heard of this thing called approach anxiety? It was basically invented inside the so-called "seduction community", and it describes what you feel before you approach a woman. This they use to describe that feeling you get before you approach a random woman. Their theory goes that its hard-wired, and you have to burn it out of your system by doing a massive amount of approaches.
Well, I'm here to tell you that I have done that and I have gone through that whole process. Heck, I've mastered pretty much everything those guys teach, and now I have a completely different theory than they do. I have a completely different view of how to overcome approach anxiety.
You see... I believe the reason they get approach anxiety is because their body is telling them they're about to do something that's inefficient and stupid. In fact, people who are "naturals" with women get much better results than most "pickup gurus", and they can't even identify feeling such a thing.
What's the difference? What do these naturals do so that they both never feel this feeling yet get a ton of results with women? Well, the first thing they don't do, is they don't go around approaching a bunch of random women. And this isn't a sort of a critique on that way of doing things, heck, I've done it for half a decade myself.
What naturals tend to do as you'll find out is that they only approach the RIGHT women. Heck, he's done 95% of the work because he even walks over and says hi. What naturals do is that they are extremely adept and flirting from a distance. They let out a "I'm interested" mating signal with their eyes to any cute girl they spot, and if she's interested she flirts back with a "come and get me tiger" kind of a look. They flirt for a bit with those glances... and then he walks over and says hello.
Guess how often you have approach anxiety if the girl invites you and gives you "come and grab me tiger" look? You don't! You only get that feeling when you're about to approach a completely random girl who hasn't invited you in any way, shape or form.
Here's the trick... Guys who are still stuck in the "approach anxiety" theory will try to shame you for leaving their cult. They will say things like "well if you can't be a REAL MAN and approach women like a man!"... The truth is that it doesn't have anything to do with courage. The world's best "pickup gurus", the kind who walk up to random women uninvited, and do a whole bunch of things, only get 1 in 20 women they randomly approach. No that's not a typo, and those are the world's best. They still admit to having approach anxiety after decades of doing it.
Guess what? A naturals is simply more efficient. He simply weeds out those 19 before he even says a word. He simply uses his eye and proximity to see what girl is interested in being picked up. When he finds her, he says hi, and its a done deal, every time. Its not that the natural is afraid to go to those other 19 girls, its just a waste of time.
So if you want to eliminate approach anxiety, eliminate it at the root, a faulty approach to meeting women in the first place.
Well, I'm here to tell you that I have done that and I have gone through that whole process. Heck, I've mastered pretty much everything those guys teach, and now I have a completely different theory than they do. I have a completely different view of how to overcome approach anxiety.
You see... I believe the reason they get approach anxiety is because their body is telling them they're about to do something that's inefficient and stupid. In fact, people who are "naturals" with women get much better results than most "pickup gurus", and they can't even identify feeling such a thing.
What's the difference? What do these naturals do so that they both never feel this feeling yet get a ton of results with women? Well, the first thing they don't do, is they don't go around approaching a bunch of random women. And this isn't a sort of a critique on that way of doing things, heck, I've done it for half a decade myself.
What naturals tend to do as you'll find out is that they only approach the RIGHT women. Heck, he's done 95% of the work because he even walks over and says hi. What naturals do is that they are extremely adept and flirting from a distance. They let out a "I'm interested" mating signal with their eyes to any cute girl they spot, and if she's interested she flirts back with a "come and get me tiger" kind of a look. They flirt for a bit with those glances... and then he walks over and says hello.
Guess how often you have approach anxiety if the girl invites you and gives you "come and grab me tiger" look? You don't! You only get that feeling when you're about to approach a completely random girl who hasn't invited you in any way, shape or form.
Here's the trick... Guys who are still stuck in the "approach anxiety" theory will try to shame you for leaving their cult. They will say things like "well if you can't be a REAL MAN and approach women like a man!"... The truth is that it doesn't have anything to do with courage. The world's best "pickup gurus", the kind who walk up to random women uninvited, and do a whole bunch of things, only get 1 in 20 women they randomly approach. No that's not a typo, and those are the world's best. They still admit to having approach anxiety after decades of doing it.
Guess what? A naturals is simply more efficient. He simply weeds out those 19 before he even says a word. He simply uses his eye and proximity to see what girl is interested in being picked up. When he finds her, he says hi, and its a done deal, every time. Its not that the natural is afraid to go to those other 19 girls, its just a waste of time.
So if you want to eliminate approach anxiety, eliminate it at the root, a faulty approach to meeting women in the first place.
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